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Hahaa i just finally got unlazy i downloaded it

       OK so my very first big blog  this is something I have been thinking about for quite awhile and I run into quite a lot of parents who are in the same boat. Now shhh are  you ready for this Its a clean house? or one who doesn't look like a tornado has hit! we all now that feeling right gosh knows I do and then I start to freak out that my house is so freaking dirty. I mean you can walk into someone house who has 4 kids and they magically have this stupidly clean house and your like how the f*** do they do it right? You then proceed to ask them how do they do it and all they say is.......... Oh I just clean it I just clean all the time!!!!  If your like me that's not what is gonna help you out. I need something solid some help other then 'oh i just clean" because I don't want to be cleaning all day. Also  that doesn't help me much because I refuse to clean all day I refuse I have 4 beautiful baby's to play with I refuse to clean all day!!  


       so step one we need to find a place in our heads that we can make sense out if it!!!! this part is gonna be kinda easy to do I want you to spend the next week and I want you to pick one room aka maybe the kitchen that one is mine because I have a love hate relationship with that room. 

 1. So I want you to time yourself how long does it take you to clean that room up just do how you normally  do it no rush just like any other day OK. when our done mark your time to how long it takes you to do it.Do these for a whole week and keep track in your head or write it down some place you know where to find it and keep it to yourself I'm bad if I wait like I used to do and do a whole day worth of dishes it would take me at least an hour after the kids went down to bed which sucks cuz you know they can run you ragged all day  also when am I supposed to get my time with the hubs or time with a good book I WONT because I'm to tired to do so. self care is really important to everybody but that's another chapter in life for another Day. Next week we will do step two if you have yet to figure it out lol.

omg i finally got my computer up and running im so excited and i have been thinking alot about my page and where i can go im gonna try to get on tonight and do something proper love ya guys 

      Ok we have recently started aba therapy in the home which im still kinda nervous about it but I will get through this like I always do. We have only done a week and he is doing so much better after that first week makes me so excited what the future holds. I really love our therapist to she is so kind and so very patient with him she never raises her voice I completely respect her for what she deals with on a daily with the children and she has the patience of a goddess i swear this is going to be good. Any way if you have the option to do it DO IT  you wont regret it later.  We do so much for our children to make them ready for the world and i know we worry about our special angels when they grow up and move out I know I stay up thinking about this time.  I also know that I am doing thw best that I can be with what I have to work with. This is the group i work with i give them a huge shout out for the work they are doing. I  have als seen other children with these people and they are doing great http://www.acesaba.com/  they are great.   

 

Autism with a chance of crazy

     

    The title says it all I think it does not matter where on the spectrum you or your child is its always gonna be crazy at some point. Either your new to this world and figuring out all the quirks and struggles that come with it or you are pretty well versed with this struggle with this diagnoses.  Either if new problems arise as we grow as a person that we have to learn how to respond to it.  Crazy is how I always see it when you have a child with autism in the house. I myself have come comfy with this very word in my home as it explains my life to a tee with one word. 

    I am a mother to a child with autism as well as 3 other children that are nerotypical in almost every sense they too are crazy but I think it fits just right in our little family for them to be just as crazy. I have 2 boys and 2 girls we are perfectly balanced as my oldest would put it lol.  they are the high light of my day they keep me so busy I dont have time to breath but i  wouldn't have it any other way. 

      I will be trying to help as much as I can with whatever help you need ask me questions I will answer to the best of my knowledge to help you guys out you just let me know on here.  Im on Facebook with kera mison please add me i need more friends to talk to im going crazy lol.